Alexander Adoption Journey – For Us and For Him

Mandee Alexander
Mandee Alexander New Providence, Pennsylvania

We’re Adopting!


"From us or for us."

Those five words were part of our wedding vows — a promise that whatever children God entrusts to us, whether they come from us or for us, we would love them fully and faithfully.

Over the past 2½ years of marriage, we’ve been learning, growing, and trusting God together — through laughter, late-night talks, and plentyyy of lessons in patience and grace.

And now, He’s leading us into a brand-new chapter: adoption. He has made it so clear, specifically through community, that “For Us” is first.

We don’t know exactly what the road ahead looks like — but we know the One who called us to it. He’s never once led us somewhere and then left us. That’s just not His character.

Our prayer is simple: that every form we fill out, every waiting season, every tear and celebration — would be for Him and a reflection of His glory.

Lately, “Able” by Phil Wickham has been on repeat in our home, reminding us that the God who began this story is more than just able to carry us through this, but this journey will be exceedingly and abundantly more than we could imagine.

Our hearts are full—we’ve been awarded two matching grants! Lifesong for Orphans is matching $4,000, and Calvary Church in Lancaster, PA is matching $5,000. 

The first $9,000 we raise will be matched dollar for dollar, and we’re so thankful for these faithful private fund partners who are walking with us in this journey.

We can’t do this without our people — our village. You’ve cheered us on through every season so far, and now we’d love to invite you to walk with us in this one, too. Every prayer whispered and gift given means more than we can express. We’re so grateful to be surrounded by such a faithful community.

“Now to him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us.” – Ephesians 3:20

Abundantly thankful for you!

~ Ryan & Mandee


*Additional funds received after meeting our fundraiser goal will be used to help us cover post-placement costs.

STRIPE charges an online processing fee (2.2% +.30 USD per transaction)*. Your donations will be decreased by this amount. You may also send a check payable to “Lifesong for Orphans”. In the memo line please write “Alexander 11956”, to ensure it is credited to our account. Please mail to Lifesong for Orphans, PO Box 9, Gridley, IL 61744.

Lifesong has been blessed with partners who underwrite all U.S. administrative and fundraising costs (TMG Foundation and other partners). That means 100% of your donation will go directly to the adoption.

 

    • In following IRS guidelines, your donation is to Lifesong for Orphans. This organization retains full discretion over its use, but intends to honor the donor’s suggested use.

 

    • Lifesong is a 501(c)3 tax exempt organization. Individual donations of $50 or more and yearly donations totaling $250 or more will receive a tax-deductible receipt. Receipts for donations under $50 will gladly be sent upon request.

 

    • *3.5% fee for donations given with an American Express card
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Raised to date by 20 people
 of  $60,000
84 days left

My Story

We’re Adopting!


"From us or for us."

Those five words were part of our wedding vows — a promise that whatever children God entrusts to us, whether they come from us or for us, we would love them fully and faithfully.

Over the past 2½ years of marriage, we’ve been learning, growing, and trusting God together — through laughter, late-night talks, and plentyyy of lessons in patience and grace.

And now, He’s leading us into a brand-new chapter: adoption. He has made it so clear, specifically through community, that “For Us” is first.

We don’t know exactly what the road ahead looks like — but we know the One who called us to it. He’s never once led us somewhere and then left us. That’s just not His character.

Our prayer is simple: that every form we fill out, every waiting season, every tear and celebration — would be for Him and a reflection of His glory.

Lately, “Able” by Phil Wickham has been on repeat in our home, reminding us that the God who began this story is more than just able to carry us through this, but this journey will be exceedingly and abundantly more than we could imagine.

Our hearts are full—we’ve been awarded two matching grants! Lifesong for Orphans is matching $4,000, and Calvary Church in Lancaster, PA is matching $5,000. 

The first $9,000 we raise will be matched dollar for dollar, and we’re so thankful for these faithful private fund partners who are walking with us in this journey.

We can’t do this without our people — our village. You’ve cheered us on through every season so far, and now we’d love to invite you to walk with us in this one, too. Every prayer whispered and gift given means more than we can express. We’re so grateful to be surrounded by such a faithful community.

“Now to him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us.” – Ephesians 3:20

Abundantly thankful for you!

~ Ryan & Mandee


*Additional funds received after meeting our fundraiser goal will be used to help us cover post-placement costs.

STRIPE charges an online processing fee (2.2% +.30 USD per transaction)*. Your donations will be decreased by this amount. You may also send a check payable to “Lifesong for Orphans”. In the memo line please write “Alexander 11956”, to ensure it is credited to our account. Please mail to Lifesong for Orphans, PO Box 9, Gridley, IL 61744.

Lifesong has been blessed with partners who underwrite all U.S. administrative and fundraising costs (TMG Foundation and other partners). That means 100% of your donation will go directly to the adoption.

 

    • In following IRS guidelines, your donation is to Lifesong for Orphans. This organization retains full discretion over its use, but intends to honor the donor’s suggested use.

 

    • Lifesong is a 501(c)3 tax exempt organization. Individual donations of $50 or more and yearly donations totaling $250 or more will receive a tax-deductible receipt. Receipts for donations under $50 will gladly be sent upon request.

 

    • *3.5% fee for donations given with an American Express card
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Adoption & Ice Cream

April 9, 2026

We had such a wonderful time at Strasburg Creamery!

Thank you to our family, friends, coworkers, strangers we now call friends, those who prayed over us on the spot, to those who came back to our table to donate more to our adoption fund. 

It was such a joy to see how the Lord delights in adoption and foster care, especially through the many conversations with people who are fostering, adopting, or have it woven into their families.

Pretty sure (like 99.99%) there will be ice cream in Heaven… and it will probably taste just like Strasburg Creamery’s. So thankful for their “Yes!” to hosting us and that we love 11 minutes away to grab a scoop like at least once a week the rest of this summer 

What’s next?! 

We have a service project in place through Both Hands beginning of this month, we’re looking for project sponsors to help fund our adoption and the first $4,000 we raise is matched! 

More info below! 
bothhands.org/project/alexander-1615

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UPDATES & EVENTS

March 27, 2026

Hi there friends and family! 

We have an exciting adoption update! 🎉🎉🎉

We are now considered an ACTIVE family! Which means we are able to match with a little one.
At this time, the only thing that is standing in our way between saying “Yes!” to a match is funding!

We have a few wonderful things in motion to help us reach our adoption funds!

1. Join us at Strasburg Creamery on April 9 & 10 to enter our Adoption Gift Card Raffle Fundraiser! 

Click below for all the details! 🍦
https://bio.site/forusandforhim

 

2. We also have been awarded our second matching grant of $4,000 through Both Hands. All donations to Both Hands will be doubled! Woohoo! 

Along with our grant, we have the opportunity to do a service project with Both Hands! God has been soooo cool to allow us to cross paths with our sweet neighbor Joanne. She is so excited and “shocked” was the word she kept using that we will have a team to help do some work for her around her home. 

If you’d like to be a part of our team, please let us know! Or if you’d like to sponsor our team, click below! 
https://bio.site/forusandforhim

THANK YOU!

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Home Study… ✅

February 23, 2026

What a happy Monday! Eeek! Our home study is officially finalized which is a hugeeee step!

All that’s left before matching is fundraising! 🎉

Pray for us as we can now begin submitting for scholarships and for Jehovah Jireh (The Lord our Provider) to provide in ways exceedingly & abundantly more than we could ask or think! 

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