Arey Adoption #2

Ashley Arey
Ashley Arey Leesburg, Virginia

We are Neil (dad), Ashley (mom), Austin (9), and Miles (2), and we love that God made us a family in 2014 when Neil and Ashley were married. Back then we could have never predicted all that God had in store for us, and we’re thankful for it all.

We individually were interested in adoption after serving on mission trips and seeing and experiencing the need for adoption in different orphanages around the world. When we got married and wanted to grow a family, that individual interest became a conversation, then a shared mutual interest as we began to explore. The more we explored, the more that interest turned into a passion.

We saw a family as a group of people God puts together that don’t need shared DNA. As believers, adoption isn’t a foreign or distant concept, since we are all adopted into God’s family, seen as sons and daughters. To grow our family the same way is a gift. It’s also a roller coaster with plenty of unknowns, and it will be our greatest honor and privilege to sit with our kiddos to help them, love them, listen to them, grieve with them, celebrate with them, and remind them of truths in the midst of any unanswered questions they have as they process their story and shape an understanding of who they are. We will forever honor how they came into this world, and we will rest in the fact that our ultimate identity is being children of the infinitely good Father we have in Heaven, who holds us in His hands, never leaves us, and has already gone before us.

We are honored to have been awarded a $5,000 matching grant fund administered by Cheerful Giving Adoption fund in San Marcos, CA and a $2,500 matching grant fund administered by Lifesong for Orphans.


STRIPE charges an online processing fee (2.2% +.30 USD per transaction)*. Your donations will be decreased by this amount. You may also send a check payable to “Lifesong for Orphans”. In the memo line please write “Arey 12262”, to ensure it is credited to our account. Please mail to Lifesong for Orphans, PO Box 9, Gridley, IL 61744.

Lifesong has been blessed with partners who underwrite all U.S. administrative and fundraising costs (TMG Foundation and other partners). That means 100% of your donation will go directly to the adoption.

 

    • In following IRS guidelines, your donation is to Lifesong for Orphans. This organization retains full discretion over its use, but intends to honor the donor’s suggested use.

 

    • Lifesong is a 501(c)3 tax exempt organization. Individual donations of $50 or more and yearly donations totaling $250 or more will receive a tax-deductible receipt. Receipts for donations under $50 will gladly be sent upon request.

 

    • *3.5% fee for donations given with an American Express card

 

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Raised to date by 11 people
 of  $29,500
476 days left

My Story

We are Neil (dad), Ashley (mom), Austin (9), and Miles (2), and we love that God made us a family in 2014 when Neil and Ashley were married. Back then we could have never predicted all that God had in store for us, and we’re thankful for it all.

We individually were interested in adoption after serving on mission trips and seeing and experiencing the need for adoption in different orphanages around the world. When we got married and wanted to grow a family, that individual interest became a conversation, then a shared mutual interest as we began to explore. The more we explored, the more that interest turned into a passion.

We saw a family as a group of people God puts together that don’t need shared DNA. As believers, adoption isn’t a foreign or distant concept, since we are all adopted into God’s family, seen as sons and daughters. To grow our family the same way is a gift. It’s also a roller coaster with plenty of unknowns, and it will be our greatest honor and privilege to sit with our kiddos to help them, love them, listen to them, grieve with them, celebrate with them, and remind them of truths in the midst of any unanswered questions they have as they process their story and shape an understanding of who they are. We will forever honor how they came into this world, and we will rest in the fact that our ultimate identity is being children of the infinitely good Father we have in Heaven, who holds us in His hands, never leaves us, and has already gone before us.

We are honored to have been awarded a $5,000 matching grant fund administered by Cheerful Giving Adoption fund in San Marcos, CA and a $2,500 matching grant fund administered by Lifesong for Orphans.


STRIPE charges an online processing fee (2.2% +.30 USD per transaction)*. Your donations will be decreased by this amount. You may also send a check payable to “Lifesong for Orphans”. In the memo line please write “Arey 12262”, to ensure it is credited to our account. Please mail to Lifesong for Orphans, PO Box 9, Gridley, IL 61744.

Lifesong has been blessed with partners who underwrite all U.S. administrative and fundraising costs (TMG Foundation and other partners). That means 100% of your donation will go directly to the adoption.

 

    • In following IRS guidelines, your donation is to Lifesong for Orphans. This organization retains full discretion over its use, but intends to honor the donor’s suggested use.

 

    • Lifesong is a 501(c)3 tax exempt organization. Individual donations of $50 or more and yearly donations totaling $250 or more will receive a tax-deductible receipt. Receipts for donations under $50 will gladly be sent upon request.

 

    • *3.5% fee for donations given with an American Express card

 

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Comments

$50

Alison

Sep 10, 2026

“My brother-in-law and his husband adopted an amazing little girl a year and a half ago. I know how much money and time goes into adoption. I hope you are able to reach your goal ”

$1,000

Kristi

Sep 9, 2026

“Lots of love!”

$100

Nikki

Sep 7, 2026

“You’re family and story is so inspiring. Whoever the new little one is- they are so lucky!”

$25

Jesse

Sep 4, 2026

$250

Cyndi & Scott

Sep 4, 2026

“love you guys so so much. Praying that God will guide and bless every step of the adoption. Proud of you guys. xoxo”

$100

Morgan and Pat

Sep 3, 2026

$100

Karla

Sep 3, 2026

“XO. aunt Karla”

$100

Audrey

Sep 3, 2026

“Praying for you!”

$250

Sara & Brian

Sep 3, 2026

“Praise the Lord! How exciting :) we are praying for y’all and your family and excited that there will be more Arey’s in this world! Love, Sara & Brian”

$50

Lindsey

Sep 3, 2026

“So much love to your family as you begin this journey towards a beautiful new chapter. Can’t wait to meet our newest little neighbor! ”

$2,500

David & Heather

Sep 1, 2026

“Blessings - David and Heather Platt”