The Joy of Adoption

Ben and Lindsey Adkins
Ben and Lindsey Adkins Troup, Texas

Since before we were married Ben and Lindsey both knew they wanted to adopt one day. After having traveled extensively worldwide and seeing the need of orphans around the globe, we knew that the Lord was calling our family to grow through adoption. Four years into our adventurous marriage we decided we wanted children. However, having biological children first seemed not to be the Lord’s plan for our family.

After suffering 2 miscarriages within a year we started asking God if maybe this was our time to adopt instead. With great confidence we felt the Lord saying “Yes!”. We are adopting from China with Lifeline Children's Services! We are excited about the little boy the Father has planned to join our family. With every step, God has walked with us and we know He will continue to provide. We are confident He will supply the last $20,000 needed to complete our adoption. 

We are so thankful to have Lifesong for Orphans on our team! They have offered us a matching grant of $2,500!! This means that for every dollar donated, up to $2,500, they will match it! That’s a total of $5,000 towards our adoption! Gifts over and above this amount still help towards our adoption. All gifts are tax-deductable through Lifesong. Can you help us bring home our Son?

*For legal confidentiality purposes we can not share his picture or real name. Hungary’s confidentiality is very strict and we are trying hard to follow their rules. Thank you for understanding!


STRIPE charges an online processing fee (2.2% +.30 USD per transaction). Your donations will be decreased by this amount. You may also send a check payable to “Lifesong for Orphans”. In the memo line please write “Adkins 6260″, to ensure it is credited to our account. Please mail to Lifesong for Orphans, PO Box 40, Gridley, IL 61744.

Lifesong has been blessed with partners who underwrite all U.S. administrative and fundraising costs (TMG Foundation and other partners). That means 100% of your donation will go directly to the adoption.

  • In following IRS guidelines, your donation is to Lifesong for Orphans. This organization retains full discretion over its use, but intends to honor the donor’s suggested use.
  • Lifesong is a 501(c)3 tax exempt organization. Individual donations of $50 or more and yearly donations totaling $250 or more will receive a tax-deductible receipt. Receipts for donations under $50 will gladly be sent upon request.
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Raised to date by 21 people
 of  $20,000
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My Story

Since before we were married Ben and Lindsey both knew they wanted to adopt one day. After having traveled extensively worldwide and seeing the need of orphans around the globe, we knew that the Lord was calling our family to grow through adoption. Four years into our adventurous marriage we decided we wanted children. However, having biological children first seemed not to be the Lord’s plan for our family.

After suffering 2 miscarriages within a year we started asking God if maybe this was our time to adopt instead. With great confidence we felt the Lord saying “Yes!”. We are adopting from China with Lifeline Children's Services! We are excited about the little boy the Father has planned to join our family. With every step, God has walked with us and we know He will continue to provide. We are confident He will supply the last $20,000 needed to complete our adoption. 

We are so thankful to have Lifesong for Orphans on our team! They have offered us a matching grant of $2,500!! This means that for every dollar donated, up to $2,500, they will match it! That’s a total of $5,000 towards our adoption! Gifts over and above this amount still help towards our adoption. All gifts are tax-deductable through Lifesong. Can you help us bring home our Son?

*For legal confidentiality purposes we can not share his picture or real name. Hungary’s confidentiality is very strict and we are trying hard to follow their rules. Thank you for understanding!


STRIPE charges an online processing fee (2.2% +.30 USD per transaction). Your donations will be decreased by this amount. You may also send a check payable to “Lifesong for Orphans”. In the memo line please write “Adkins 6260″, to ensure it is credited to our account. Please mail to Lifesong for Orphans, PO Box 40, Gridley, IL 61744.

Lifesong has been blessed with partners who underwrite all U.S. administrative and fundraising costs (TMG Foundation and other partners). That means 100% of your donation will go directly to the adoption.

  • In following IRS guidelines, your donation is to Lifesong for Orphans. This organization retains full discretion over its use, but intends to honor the donor’s suggested use.
  • Lifesong is a 501(c)3 tax exempt organization. Individual donations of $50 or more and yearly donations totaling $250 or more will receive a tax-deductible receipt. Receipts for donations under $50 will gladly be sent upon request.
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Preparing to submit our China Dossier!

October 3, 2017

Hello Adoption Friends! 

We have really enjoyed seeing so many of you while we’ve been in the States the last few months. Thank you to so many of you who have donated to help us fund our adoption! We are moving the right direction as we wait for our USCIS (US Immigration office) to mail us our approval form to adopt a child from China. Once we get this form in the mail, then we can finally submit our full dossier (about 13 big documents) to the China Central Agency for Adoption. We are hoping to have this done some time in November 2017. When the China Agency gets our dossier they need a few weeks to log in our information into their central database before we can begin looking for a child to be matched with from their shared central listings. We are praying that we will get our “log in” done before Christmas! Right now it kinda feels like house hunting instead of pregnancy, with all the paperwork, waiting, approvals, and submissions. In the end its totally worth it as we know God will provide us with our beautiful chinese son!

Please continue to pray for our son and our paperwork as it is being prepared to enter the hands of the Chinese Central Adoption Agency. We love you all so much! Thank you for walking through this journey with us!

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Adopting from China

September 16, 2017

What a whirlwind journey this has been for us! Over the summer Lifeline Children’s Services told us the Poland Adoption Program has not started back up and is continuing to restructure. They are not sure when we might be able to adopt a child from Poland and suggested changing country programs once again.

After much prayer we decided to change one last time to the China Adoption Program. We are very excited to see how the Father will be teaching us during this time as we wait, once again, for our forever family to arrive! 

Since we have changed country programs again we are spending above what we originally estimated for our adoption costs. We know the Father will provide every dollar we need to bring our Son home this next year. Can you help us by giving generously to our adoption fund with Lifesong for Orphans? Can you help us cover the extra $5000 that our two country changes have added up to? 

We so love and appreciate every one of you who has given to our family. We can’t wait to meet our son and introduce him to the best people we know – YOU! 

Lindsey and Ben

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Rapidly Changing Poland Adoptions

February 17, 2017

Hello Friends and Family,

We are unsure how many of you have heard about the crazy restructuring of the Poland Adoption Agencies that began in January 2017. Here’s the brief summary of what happened…

On January 20th we were notified by Lifeline Children’s Services, our adoptoin agency in the US, that Poland has just issued a directive to close two out of the three in-country adoption agencies that help match the children in Poland to families outside of Poland. This was a quick move by the local govenment and has shocked everyone. What this means is that originally Poland had three agencies working to match Polish children with foreign families, but now there is only one entity doing the job of these three agencies. They are very overwhelmed and trying to figure out how to handle the new load of children and families they recieved from the original two agencies that were just shut down. This new entity is not taking meetings with most, if not all, American Adoption agencies right now, so they can not set up a new contract with this group. For us, this means more waiting. Since a new contract has not been established with Lifeline and the Poland adoption agency they can not continue matching families with Polish children. Everyone is on hold. Even families who were in-country at the time of the restructuring for their bonding time with their newly adopted child are still in-country. The courts are even put on hold, which means the families finalizing their adoption right now have to wait in-country for weeks, if not months, longer. Its a crazy situation. Please be in prayer for our adoption process, for Poland as they restructure, for a meeting to take place between Lifeline and the new Polish agency, and for the families stuck in Poland right now. Pray for our child, who is also waiting on his/her family. Pray for our patience and joy in the process. 

We love you all! Thank you for your support during this time.

Lindsey and Ben

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Changing to Poland

January 6, 2017

Hello Friends and Family,

We wanted to give you a brief update! We’ve raised a ton of support towards our adoption but are still about $10,000 shy of paying for it in full! 

Also, since the fall (2016) we have changed countries of adoption from Hungary to Poland. As most of your know, we were matched with a child from Hungary in August 2016 but 5 weeks later we were denied the chance to adopt him. Without going into details here, it was a heartbreak experience. Since this time we have decided that changing countries would be our best option for a successful adoption. We are praying it goes smoothly this time! 

We are hoping and praying by the end of January 2017 we will be matched with our future child(ren)! We’ve been approved in our Home Study to adopt either a boy or a girl, single child or sibling set! Its very exciting and we can’t wait to see what God does in our family! Pray with us to bring our child(ren) home by this summer! Pray also for the remainder of the funds to come in to pay for our adoption in full, wheather from adoption grants or gifts from friends and family! 

Blessings,

The Adkins

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Coffee Lovers Unite!

August 26, 2016

Ever heard of GoBena Coffee?? They partner with adoptive families to raise money! Its yet another way you can help us fund our adoption!

Enjoy delicious coffee beans, roasted in small batches for fresher flavor, and delivered right to your door. They have a variety of cool mugs and T-shirts too! But seriously, buy coffee, which you love to drink anyway, and help support our adoption!

https://my.gobena.org/stories/adkins-adoption-fund/?id=73 Click on this link then click on “Shop Now” to go to GoBena’s website and shop for delicious coffee beans! 

Blessings,

Ben and Lindsey

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Comments

$875

Ware

Sep 28, 2017

“We love you all and your hearts and are continuing to lift you up to the father!”

$50

Summer

Sep 16, 2017

“So excited for you, Ben and Lindsey. Hope the adoption process goes well. Can't wait to see the boy's pictures. Best wishes! :) Summer”

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Meghan

Dec 25, 2016

“Can't wait to meet our future niece or nephew!”

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Lee & Donna

Dec 24, 2016

“Love you guys.. Lee and Donna”

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Sep 20, 2016

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Claudia

Sep 17, 2016

“We are SOOOOOOO excited for you! Our prayers are with you!”

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Calvin

Sep 9, 2016

“Wishing you all well. From Aptos Foursquare Church and Calvary North Bay.”

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Sep 9, 2016

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Karen S

Sep 8, 2016

“Ben and Lindsey! So happy for you!!!! Next month is already the month to get your son!!!!! Praising our Father with you!!!”

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Aug 26, 2016

“Second try-let me know that it worked. Love you guys.”

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