Josh and Rebekah’s Adoption Journey!

Josh and Rebekah
Josh and Rebekah Louisville, Kentucky

Hello, and thank you for stopping by and learning about our domestic infant adoption! We’re Josh and Rebekah, and we've been married for almost 8.5 years. From the beginning, we’ve looked forward to having at least a couple of children, often imagining a beautiful combination of biological and adopted children. However, our adoption journey started a long time ago in a faraway land, so here we go!

 

When Rebekah was growing up in Uganda, she became interested in adoption while volunteering at a local orphanage. By twelve, she hoped that she might some day be able to adopt; and by the time we were engaged,  we had discussed the possibility of  eventually adopting. We've been honored to walk alongside several families in their adoptions since the beginning of our marriage. We’ve grown in our understanding of the depth of beauty and heartache unique to each adoption story. In all of these interactions, God surely was preparing us for where we are today.

 

We decided we were ready to become parents and celebrated our first pregnancy soon after, followed by the heartbreak of miscarriage and several long years of secondary infertility. In our sorrows, God has shown us His faithfulness in countless ways. We are so thankful for the precious support system He has provided through our family and friends, and we trust that, in the waiting, He has been gently and purposefully shaping us for good.

 

Our interest in adoption kept growing, and the Lord finally led us to start pursuing domestic infant adoption a little over a year ago. We will so joyfully receive, celebrate, and love whatever child(ren) He gives us!

 

Currently: Our home study was completed in September, we're actively reviewing cases, and we’ve been sending our profile to birth mothers so that they can consider us. We'll update you here whenever there's news!

 

The financial cost can be daunting: Agency fees, birth mom expenses and counseling, legal fees, and travel/hotel expenses often bring the total cost of a domestic infant adoption to anywhere from $35,000 to $50,000, and while we're prepared to pay a good chunk of that from our savings, we'd love your help for the rest. We’ve received generous matching grants funded by Orphan Care Alliance and Lifesong for Orphans: this means that they will match any donations made to this page, up to $9,000! We are raising funds in order to receive the grant. Would you consider coming alongside us with a tax-deductible donation? Anything we receive, up to $9,000, will be doubled, and any amount, big or small, will go twice as far!

 

 

You can give online with the DONATE button above.

 

 

If you'd rather pay by check, please make it payable to "Lifesong for Orphans." In the memo, make sure to note "FLINT 09932" to reach our account. Please mail checks to Lifesong for Orphans, P.O. Box 9, Gridley, IL 61744.

 

 

Would you please also pray for us as we prepare and wait, and for the protection and all-around wellbeing of the birth mother we've yet to match with?

 

 

 


STRIPE charges an online processing fee (2.2% +.30 USD per transaction)*. Your donations will be decreased by this amount. You may also send a check payable to “Lifesong for Orphans”. In the memo line please write “Flint 09932”, to ensure it is credited to our account. Please mail to Lifesong for Orphans, PO Box 9, Gridley, IL 61744.

Lifesong has been blessed with partners who underwrite all U.S. administrative and fundraising costs (TMG Foundation and other partners). That means 100% of your donation will go directly to the adoption.

  • In following IRS guidelines, your donation is to Lifesong for Orphans. This organization retains full discretion over its use, but intends to honor the donor’s suggested use.
  • Lifesong is a 501(c)3 tax exempt organization. Individual donations of $50 or more and yearly donations totaling $250 or more will receive a tax-deductible receipt. Receipts for donations under $50 will gladly be sent upon request.
  • *3.5% fee for donations given with an American Express card
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My Story

Hello, and thank you for stopping by and learning about our domestic infant adoption! We’re Josh and Rebekah, and we've been married for almost 8.5 years. From the beginning, we’ve looked forward to having at least a couple of children, often imagining a beautiful combination of biological and adopted children. However, our adoption journey started a long time ago in a faraway land, so here we go!

 

When Rebekah was growing up in Uganda, she became interested in adoption while volunteering at a local orphanage. By twelve, she hoped that she might some day be able to adopt; and by the time we were engaged,  we had discussed the possibility of  eventually adopting. We've been honored to walk alongside several families in their adoptions since the beginning of our marriage. We’ve grown in our understanding of the depth of beauty and heartache unique to each adoption story. In all of these interactions, God surely was preparing us for where we are today.

 

We decided we were ready to become parents and celebrated our first pregnancy soon after, followed by the heartbreak of miscarriage and several long years of secondary infertility. In our sorrows, God has shown us His faithfulness in countless ways. We are so thankful for the precious support system He has provided through our family and friends, and we trust that, in the waiting, He has been gently and purposefully shaping us for good.

 

Our interest in adoption kept growing, and the Lord finally led us to start pursuing domestic infant adoption a little over a year ago. We will so joyfully receive, celebrate, and love whatever child(ren) He gives us!

 

Currently: Our home study was completed in September, we're actively reviewing cases, and we’ve been sending our profile to birth mothers so that they can consider us. We'll update you here whenever there's news!

 

The financial cost can be daunting: Agency fees, birth mom expenses and counseling, legal fees, and travel/hotel expenses often bring the total cost of a domestic infant adoption to anywhere from $35,000 to $50,000, and while we're prepared to pay a good chunk of that from our savings, we'd love your help for the rest. We’ve received generous matching grants funded by Orphan Care Alliance and Lifesong for Orphans: this means that they will match any donations made to this page, up to $9,000! We are raising funds in order to receive the grant. Would you consider coming alongside us with a tax-deductible donation? Anything we receive, up to $9,000, will be doubled, and any amount, big or small, will go twice as far!

 

 

You can give online with the DONATE button above.

 

 

If you'd rather pay by check, please make it payable to "Lifesong for Orphans." In the memo, make sure to note "FLINT 09932" to reach our account. Please mail checks to Lifesong for Orphans, P.O. Box 9, Gridley, IL 61744.

 

 

Would you please also pray for us as we prepare and wait, and for the protection and all-around wellbeing of the birth mother we've yet to match with?

 

 

 


STRIPE charges an online processing fee (2.2% +.30 USD per transaction)*. Your donations will be decreased by this amount. You may also send a check payable to “Lifesong for Orphans”. In the memo line please write “Flint 09932”, to ensure it is credited to our account. Please mail to Lifesong for Orphans, PO Box 9, Gridley, IL 61744.

Lifesong has been blessed with partners who underwrite all U.S. administrative and fundraising costs (TMG Foundation and other partners). That means 100% of your donation will go directly to the adoption.

  • In following IRS guidelines, your donation is to Lifesong for Orphans. This organization retains full discretion over its use, but intends to honor the donor’s suggested use.
  • Lifesong is a 501(c)3 tax exempt organization. Individual donations of $50 or more and yearly donations totaling $250 or more will receive a tax-deductible receipt. Receipts for donations under $50 will gladly be sent upon request.
  • *3.5% fee for donations given with an American Express card
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Waiting for a match

May 7, 2022

 

Excited. Weary. Hopeful. Wondering.

 

This is how we’ve been. In some ways, we’re much closer to adopting than when we were: 1) we’ve sent our profile book to a growing list of expectant mothers seeking adoptive parents, 2) generous and kind people (YOU) have knocked our socks off with your donations, and 3) God is working in amazing ways, even if we can’t see what He’s up to yet. These are the encouraging things we hold on to during this season, reminders that something’s really happening, even though…

 

Waiting is hard. But we’ve only been in this phase (waiting for a match) since December, which isn’t terribly long yet. It could still be a while, because although we’re actively sending our profile book (filled with pictures and descriptions of us and our home/community/backgrounds/etc.), each expectant mama we respond to also receives a stack of similar books from other hopeful adoptive families. It’s a wonderful thing that she can review the various options and take time to choose from us all, and we’ll keep sending our profile until it reaches the right mama who chooses us back.

 

In the meantime, we pray hard for these moms, asking God to watch over them, protect them, and provide them with families that will love them and their little ones well. We can hardly wait to be one of those families, but we know that each family they choose is an answer to our prayers! It’s business as usual here, otherwise–Josh is fixing helicopters; I’m teaching pottery classes and making pots for my shop; we’re busy each week with our church; and we’re fixing things up around our house and yard. All plans are made with open hands, ready to drop everything if we match with a baby who was just born last week, or to rearrange plans if we find out “our” due date is next month, etc. It could be next year or next week…And we’ll be overjoyed to update you when we know more!

 

Thank you so much for your donations toward our adoption!!!!! Words aren’t sufficient to describe how encouraged we are by your participation in this adventure. The $10,000 matching grant has been fully matched, and we are in awe of how quickly that happened! There’s still plenty of time to add a contribution, if anyone else was hoping to do so, but we really just want to say thank you, and praise God for providing so faithfully. We would also ask that you pray for us as we wait, that our waiting time would be fruitful and full of hope, and please pray for the expectant mamas who are considering adoption plans.

 

 

 

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Comments

$40

Megan

May 13, 2022

“That little baby is so blessed to join your family and have you both for his or her parents. May God hold you close during this waiting time.”

$200

Hidden

May 9, 2022

$125

Hidden

May 9, 2022

“Josh and Rebekah, I (Dan) have been praying for you guys and we will continue to do so. We are excited for you as you grow your family. Adoption has a personal place in our heart as our older 2 kids are adopted through foster care. We know its not a easy journey but its worth it. You will make great parents and we are excited to see who God will place in your home, when that time comes. Our Love and prayers to you, Daniel & Hannah Geesey”

$500

Offline Donation

Feb 21, 2022

$400

Hidden

Feb 19, 2022

“We have been praying for you and are excited to see how the Lord answers your prayers! May God strengthen and encourage you as you take these next steps. We are thankful to be part of the journey!”

$500

Hidden

Feb 18, 2022

“We are looking forward to the day when this prayer has been answered and we can rejoice with praise! Thank you for inviting us along on this journey with you! We love you both! The Merediths”

$300

Offline Donation

Feb 17, 2022

$100

Uncle Gary & Aunt Judy

Feb 14, 2022

“We are praying. Can't wait to see how God provides!”

$100

Dawn

Feb 11, 2022

“So thankful to be a very small part of your love story! I'm so excited to SEE who God will bring. God bless you!”

$100

Hidden

Feb 7, 2022

“So excited for you guys! Can’t wait to see the Lord answer your prayers!”

$55

Lindsay

Feb 5, 2022

“God is so good! SO excited to watch this all come together!”

$25

Judy

Feb 5, 2022

“God bless as you move forward at His direction.”

$100

Hidden

Feb 4, 2022

“We are praying for you both and for the your future child.”

$1,000

Tim

Feb 4, 2022

“We love you guys and are honored to walk beside you on this journey. —the Donaldsons”

$100

Seoyoung

Feb 1, 2022

$200

Callie

Feb 1, 2022

“Praying for you two as you continue on this journey. Excited to see what God does next. Love Callie and Stuart.”

$25

ANNA

Feb 1, 2022

“Praying for God’s richest blessings over your adoption!! Much love :)”

$300

Hidden

Feb 1, 2022

“Deuteronomy 6: 4-13”

$100

Lauir

Feb 1, 2022

“Very excited with you on this wonderful journey God has you on You guys will be amazing parents. Every blessings and much joy for the days ahead. with love, Lauri”

$5,000

Joshua

Jan 31, 2022

“Praying with you that God will prepare the right child and you for this. May His love shine through you!!”

$330

Hidden

Jan 31, 2022

“Thank you for the opportunity of giving in this way!”

$150

Jon

Jan 30, 2022

“Excited for you guys on this journey! It is a process and you will be in our prayers.”

$300

Breena

Jan 30, 2022

“Congratulations! I can’t wait to meet my new cousin. Breena Lane Branham”

$40

Merideth

Jan 29, 2022

“Love you!”

$200

Ola

Jan 29, 2022

“Blessings to you as you bring a child into your hearts and lives. We pray that you will know the joy of being parents very soon.”

$25

Jessica and Derek

Jan 29, 2022

“We are praying for your family and what God is doing.”

$100

Martha

Jan 29, 2022

“May God bless you and your growing family!❤️ Love Aunt Martha”

$150

Hidden

Jan 28, 2022

$50

Marilyn

Jan 28, 2022

“Excited for you guys and many blessings on your adoption journey!”

$150

Hannah

Jan 28, 2022

“Thrilled to hear of your journey and praying for y'all. Love you friend!”

$50

Abigail

Jan 28, 2022

“Love you and your little one, no matter where he or she is! Praying for the right baby at the right time to be brought into your family.”

$100

Eric

Jan 28, 2022

“Praying for you and your wife on this journey Driveway”

$50

Sara

Jan 28, 2022

“Praying that God will provide in big ways! So excited for you!”