Bringing our Little Guy Home – Schaffer Family Adoption

Shane & Rae Schaffer
Shane & Rae Schaffer Zionsville, Indiana

Our adoption story is one of being chased by God, pursued to be obedient, and submitting to His call.  There is really no simple answer to what led us to adopt.  Life experience, the Lord’s mandate to care for the orphans and widows, the Holy Spirit’s persistence that this path was for us… it all factors in to a large degree.

We aren’t the typical adoptive family.  Our little ones aren’t exactly little anymore, with one in college and the other two solidly in their teens.  Our extended family doesn’t have a tradition of following God in caring for the orphans in this way.  Yet when the Lord started to place adoption on our hearts, we knew it would be one of our deepest regrets if we didn’t follow Him in obedience.

Shane’s experience growing up in a home without a consistent father-figure propelled him to search out men who would guide him as a teenager.  Thankfully, those men were Godly and filled a gap for him as they pointed him toward Jesus.  In his mind, he had been figuratively adopted by these men and they forged a foundation of stepping up for others in need.  When he started his career in education, it was in an area where many of the students came from single parent homes, lacking in male direction.  He intentionally poured into these students, teaching them the lessons he’d learned from the men God had placed in his life.

The neighborhood we moved into in those early days of our marriage was populated by many gals who had been widowed or who had never married.  Stepping in to care for the widows (James 1:27) became a joy as we were able to serve their needs uniquely.  But it also prompted us to consider if God was calling us to do more… and if so, was adoption His plan?

We began to feel a pull toward growing our family, though we knew that we wouldn’t have any more children biologically.  The Holy Spirit began to chase us in adoption.  Books, sermons, Scripture, conversations… “adoption” was the recurring theme that we couldn’t shake.  We had learned better than to run away from a calling when God so clearly placed it before us… and yet we delayed, waiting for the “perfect” time.  The excuses all seemed to make sense until our children also started to feel the pull and we recognized that they were watching us to see how we would follow Him in obedience.  We stopped waiting for all the pieces to fit together perfectly and submitted to Him.  Almost immediately, we began to fall in love with this little one whose face we haven’t yet seen and whose name we don’t yet know.  But he is a part of every prayer, every grace before a meal, every celebration we share as a family.

He is our son and we are so eager to meet him.

We are approved to adopt a little guy with mild special needs from China.  We anxiously look forward to finding out who he is.

We are so grateful to have been given a matching grant from Lifesong for Orphans in partnership with our church, Traders Point Christian Church.  Every dollar donated will be matched, up to $3000!  


STRIPE charges an online processing fee (2.2% +.30 USD per transaction). Your donations will be decreased by this amount. You may also send a check payable to “Lifesong for Orphans”. In the memo line please write “Schaffer 7028”, to ensure it is credited to our account. Please mail to Lifesong for Orphans, PO Box 40, Gridley, IL 61744.

Lifesong has been blessed with partners who underwrite all U.S. administrative and fundraising costs (TMG Foundation and other partners). That means 100% of your donation will go directly to the adoption.

  • In following IRS guidelines, your donation is to Lifesong for Orphans. This organization retains full discretion over its use, but intends to honor the donor’s suggested use.
  • Lifesong is a 501(c)3 tax exempt organization. Individual donations of $50 or more and yearly donations totaling $250 or more will receive a tax-deductible receipt. Receipts for donations under $50 will gladly be sent upon request.
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My Story

Our adoption story is one of being chased by God, pursued to be obedient, and submitting to His call.  There is really no simple answer to what led us to adopt.  Life experience, the Lord’s mandate to care for the orphans and widows, the Holy Spirit’s persistence that this path was for us… it all factors in to a large degree.

We aren’t the typical adoptive family.  Our little ones aren’t exactly little anymore, with one in college and the other two solidly in their teens.  Our extended family doesn’t have a tradition of following God in caring for the orphans in this way.  Yet when the Lord started to place adoption on our hearts, we knew it would be one of our deepest regrets if we didn’t follow Him in obedience.

Shane’s experience growing up in a home without a consistent father-figure propelled him to search out men who would guide him as a teenager.  Thankfully, those men were Godly and filled a gap for him as they pointed him toward Jesus.  In his mind, he had been figuratively adopted by these men and they forged a foundation of stepping up for others in need.  When he started his career in education, it was in an area where many of the students came from single parent homes, lacking in male direction.  He intentionally poured into these students, teaching them the lessons he’d learned from the men God had placed in his life.

The neighborhood we moved into in those early days of our marriage was populated by many gals who had been widowed or who had never married.  Stepping in to care for the widows (James 1:27) became a joy as we were able to serve their needs uniquely.  But it also prompted us to consider if God was calling us to do more… and if so, was adoption His plan?

We began to feel a pull toward growing our family, though we knew that we wouldn’t have any more children biologically.  The Holy Spirit began to chase us in adoption.  Books, sermons, Scripture, conversations… “adoption” was the recurring theme that we couldn’t shake.  We had learned better than to run away from a calling when God so clearly placed it before us… and yet we delayed, waiting for the “perfect” time.  The excuses all seemed to make sense until our children also started to feel the pull and we recognized that they were watching us to see how we would follow Him in obedience.  We stopped waiting for all the pieces to fit together perfectly and submitted to Him.  Almost immediately, we began to fall in love with this little one whose face we haven’t yet seen and whose name we don’t yet know.  But he is a part of every prayer, every grace before a meal, every celebration we share as a family.

He is our son and we are so eager to meet him.

We are approved to adopt a little guy with mild special needs from China.  We anxiously look forward to finding out who he is.

We are so grateful to have been given a matching grant from Lifesong for Orphans in partnership with our church, Traders Point Christian Church.  Every dollar donated will be matched, up to $3000!  


STRIPE charges an online processing fee (2.2% +.30 USD per transaction). Your donations will be decreased by this amount. You may also send a check payable to “Lifesong for Orphans”. In the memo line please write “Schaffer 7028”, to ensure it is credited to our account. Please mail to Lifesong for Orphans, PO Box 40, Gridley, IL 61744.

Lifesong has been blessed with partners who underwrite all U.S. administrative and fundraising costs (TMG Foundation and other partners). That means 100% of your donation will go directly to the adoption.

  • In following IRS guidelines, your donation is to Lifesong for Orphans. This organization retains full discretion over its use, but intends to honor the donor’s suggested use.
  • Lifesong is a 501(c)3 tax exempt organization. Individual donations of $50 or more and yearly donations totaling $250 or more will receive a tax-deductible receipt. Receipts for donations under $50 will gladly be sent upon request.
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Leanne

Dec 31, 2017

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Dec 11, 2017

“Can't wait to meet LG!!! <3”

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James

Dec 10, 2017

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Dwight and Nancy

Dec 10, 2017

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Dec 9, 2017

“Can’t wait to meet your boy! You will be blessed by him as you will bless him.”

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Mark

Dec 9, 2017

“Merry Christmas Schaffer’s🎁 Thanks for making us feel welcome! We are looking forward to getting to know you better in the future. Praying your little guy gets to join your family soon! Love the Underwood’s”

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Dec 7, 2017

“Blessings to your entire family (including Little Guy) as you seek to follow hard after the Lord. Praying over all of the details involved and trusting God with provision.”

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Matt

Nov 6, 2017

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Juli

Nov 2, 2017

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Amy

Nov 1, 2017

“Praying for your new Little Guy and all of the blessings that he will bring your way! Thank you and your family for all you do for others! ❤️”

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Kris

Oct 27, 2017

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Sep 27, 2017

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Jamie

Sep 5, 2017

“He is going to be one of the most blessed little boys to have you guys for his family!!”

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Aug 22, 2017

“Praying for your little guy!”

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“May the Lord bless you and your little one.”

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marshall

Jul 20, 2017

“So excited for LG:-)”

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Bruce

Jul 17, 2017

“Best Wishes to Your Family! Bruce & Sherry”

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Lorie

Jul 16, 2017

“Praying for you. Excited too!”

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Tamara

Jul 12, 2017

“God's blessings to your family as you grow to a family of six! I'm so excited for all of you!💞”

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Jul 11, 2017

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Alexis

Jul 11, 2017

“We are so excited for this journey you are on!!! We love you guys!! The Hall Family”