Beauty from Ashes

Lyles
Lyles Benton, Kentucky

Evan and I have been married for 12 years. We knew we wanted children both biologically and adoptive, if that was God's will. In 2013 and 2018 we were blessed with two biological sons, Mac and Wes. Our hearts were filled with so much joy. As we settled into life as a family of four, we started discussing more children. That's when we decided to pursue adoption. 

As most know, adoption is a very overwhelming journey. In August 2021, we were matched with a birthmother. That was one of the most exciting days in our life. We formed a very close relationship with the birthmother and birthfather. On February 28, 2022, we were handed the most beautiful brown eyed baby boy. Our hearts were so full and we knew all the waiting and praying had been worth it. However, our story took a very unexpected turn. Just 5 short weeks later, the Lord called our sweet baby boy home. While we will never understand why Lee’s life on Earth was so brief, we do know that God is sovereign over all things. Lee brought so much life and happiness into our hearts and home. 


Evan and I were blessed to have such a strong support system during this time. Our families, church, and friends helped guide us through this dark time in our life. 

We prayed that God would not let tragedy be the end of our story. 

This past September we were contacted about a mother looking for a family for her baby boy. We asked for time to pray over this situation, and eventually decided to let her look at our profile. Within 24 hours, we were told the birthmother wanted us to adopt her unborn son. 
We were so excited to have been given this opportunity. Unfortunately, soon after matching, we found out the adoption would not be moving forward. Although disappointed, we knew this was part of God’s bigger plan. 

Fast forward to just a few weeks ago. We got the call that Lee’s birthparents were expecting a baby boy and wanted to know if we would adopt him. Of course we said yes. God willing, we will get to bring Lee’s baby brother home in June. 

We know that God orchestrated this story, even through the trials and heartache. God's plan is perfect, not painless.

If you have been through the adoption process, you know it is a very costly process. We are very grateful that Lifesong has given us a matching grant up to $5,000. This means the first $5,000 God provides through gifts will be matched 100%. Every gift is DOUBLED!

Thank you so much for your interest in what God is doing in our family. Whether you’re able to give a gift or not, please pray with us during this time. Thank you!

Beauty from Ashes

-The Lyles Family


STRIPE charges an online processing fee (2.2% +.30 USD per transaction)*. Your donations will be decreased by this amount. You may also send a check payable to “Lifesong for Orphans”. In the memo line please write “Lyles 10257”, to ensure it is credited to our account. Please mail to Lifesong for Orphans, PO Box 9, Gridley, IL 61744.

Lifesong has been blessed with partners who underwrite all U.S. administrative and fundraising costs (TMG Foundation and other partners). That means 100% of your donation will go directly to the adoption.

  • In following IRS guidelines, your donation is to Lifesong for Orphans. This organization retains full discretion over its use, but intends to honor the donor’s suggested use.
  • Lifesong is a 501(c)3 tax exempt organization. Individual donations of $50 or more and yearly donations totaling $250 or more will receive a tax-deductible receipt. Receipts for donations under $50 will gladly be sent upon request.
  • *3.5% fee for donations given with an American Express card
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Raised to date by 19 people
 of  $5,000
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My Story

Evan and I have been married for 12 years. We knew we wanted children both biologically and adoptive, if that was God's will. In 2013 and 2018 we were blessed with two biological sons, Mac and Wes. Our hearts were filled with so much joy. As we settled into life as a family of four, we started discussing more children. That's when we decided to pursue adoption. 

As most know, adoption is a very overwhelming journey. In August 2021, we were matched with a birthmother. That was one of the most exciting days in our life. We formed a very close relationship with the birthmother and birthfather. On February 28, 2022, we were handed the most beautiful brown eyed baby boy. Our hearts were so full and we knew all the waiting and praying had been worth it. However, our story took a very unexpected turn. Just 5 short weeks later, the Lord called our sweet baby boy home. While we will never understand why Lee’s life on Earth was so brief, we do know that God is sovereign over all things. Lee brought so much life and happiness into our hearts and home. 


Evan and I were blessed to have such a strong support system during this time. Our families, church, and friends helped guide us through this dark time in our life. 

We prayed that God would not let tragedy be the end of our story. 

This past September we were contacted about a mother looking for a family for her baby boy. We asked for time to pray over this situation, and eventually decided to let her look at our profile. Within 24 hours, we were told the birthmother wanted us to adopt her unborn son. 
We were so excited to have been given this opportunity. Unfortunately, soon after matching, we found out the adoption would not be moving forward. Although disappointed, we knew this was part of God’s bigger plan. 

Fast forward to just a few weeks ago. We got the call that Lee’s birthparents were expecting a baby boy and wanted to know if we would adopt him. Of course we said yes. God willing, we will get to bring Lee’s baby brother home in June. 

We know that God orchestrated this story, even through the trials and heartache. God's plan is perfect, not painless.

If you have been through the adoption process, you know it is a very costly process. We are very grateful that Lifesong has given us a matching grant up to $5,000. This means the first $5,000 God provides through gifts will be matched 100%. Every gift is DOUBLED!

Thank you so much for your interest in what God is doing in our family. Whether you’re able to give a gift or not, please pray with us during this time. Thank you!

Beauty from Ashes

-The Lyles Family


STRIPE charges an online processing fee (2.2% +.30 USD per transaction)*. Your donations will be decreased by this amount. You may also send a check payable to “Lifesong for Orphans”. In the memo line please write “Lyles 10257”, to ensure it is credited to our account. Please mail to Lifesong for Orphans, PO Box 9, Gridley, IL 61744.

Lifesong has been blessed with partners who underwrite all U.S. administrative and fundraising costs (TMG Foundation and other partners). That means 100% of your donation will go directly to the adoption.

  • In following IRS guidelines, your donation is to Lifesong for Orphans. This organization retains full discretion over its use, but intends to honor the donor’s suggested use.
  • Lifesong is a 501(c)3 tax exempt organization. Individual donations of $50 or more and yearly donations totaling $250 or more will receive a tax-deductible receipt. Receipts for donations under $50 will gladly be sent upon request.
  • *3.5% fee for donations given with an American Express card
Read more

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Feb 1, 2023

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Kayla

Jan 1, 2023

$50

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Jan 1, 2023

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Dec 31, 2022

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Kris

Dec 28, 2022

“All our love and prayers on your new blessing.”

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Ronica

Dec 27, 2022

“Prayers for your sweet family”

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Dec 27, 2022

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Dec 27, 2022

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Jess

Dec 26, 2022

“We are so overjoyed for your family! Praying for you and Evan!”

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Dec 26, 2022

“You don’t know me… I saw your story shared on Facebook through a mutual friend and God asked me to give. I am praying for you and your family! Your faithfulness through life’s most challenging moments is so inspiring! Praying for health and safety for you all!”

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Lindsey

Oct 6, 2022

“God is faithful- many prayers as you travel this new road ❤️”

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Debbie

Oct 6, 2022

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Jennifer

Oct 6, 2022

“Praising God for his healing hand on your heart and for the increase in your family. Just imagine eternity where your whole family will be together!”

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Jennifer

Oct 6, 2022

“Always lifting you in prayer.”

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Oct 6, 2022

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