Adopting from China

Ashley Arey
Ashley Arey Leesburg, Virginia

We are currently matched with a 3 year old boy in China we'll name Moses Miles Arey, and we’re praying the Lord would make a way for us to go get him soon. We can’t wait to bring him home. We’re looking to raise money for the last 1/3 or so of our needed funds, and we’re SO thankful to have a $2,500 matching grant through Hamilton Baptist Church. We are so confident the Lord has brought us to grow our family this way, at this time, through this country and we couldn’t be more excited!

Neil and I arrived at this resolution at different times. Neither of us grew up knowing many people who were adopted, and while we both loved the idea, it stayed an idea wrapped in so many unknowns that neither of us could picture how it would play out in our lives.

I got more exposure to the reality of adoption in my early twenties through my church in Austin, and it went from an idea to a possibility that I couldn’t shake. When Neil and I were married and ready to grow our family, we had three miscarriages that illuminated a false sense of control in our lives. We submitted our family and our plans to the Lord for His glory alone. We then had a healthy son, Austin, who is a silly, sweet, playful, independent, flexible, loving, three-year-old. When we wanted to grow our family again, we just weren’t able to get pregnant. It was a painful season of waiting, praying, crying and pleading with the Lord. Then we started talking about making that adoption idea a reality for our family. After a year of prayer, long conversations, counsel and research, that idea turned into excitement and passion. We both landed on an affirmative YES and RIGHT NOW.

This past Easter, the theme at our church was “New Life.” So, while we had landed on adopting earlier, we waited a few days so we could submit our application to adopt on Easter Sunday. We wanted to say yes to new life in our family through adoption the same day we celebrated our new life through Jesus’ adoption of us into His.


STRIPE charges an online processing fee (2.2% +.30 USD per transaction). Your donations will be decreased by this amount. You may also send a check payable to “Lifesong for Orphans”. In the memo line please write “Arey 08768”, to ensure it is credited to our account. Please mail to Lifesong for Orphans, PO Box 40, Gridley, IL 61744.

Lifesong has been blessed with partners who underwrite all U.S. administrative and fundraising costs (TMG Foundation and other partners). That means 100% of your donation will go directly to the adoption.

  • In following IRS guidelines, your donation is to Lifesong for Orphans. This organization retains full discretion over its use, but intends to honor the donor’s suggested use.
  • Lifesong is a 501(c)3 tax exempt organization. Individual donations of $50 or more and yearly donations totaling $250 or more will receive a tax-deductible receipt. Receipts for donations under $50 will gladly be sent upon request.
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Raised to date by 19 people
 of  $12,000
34 days left

My Story

We are currently matched with a 3 year old boy in China we'll name Moses Miles Arey, and we’re praying the Lord would make a way for us to go get him soon. We can’t wait to bring him home. We’re looking to raise money for the last 1/3 or so of our needed funds, and we’re SO thankful to have a $2,500 matching grant through Hamilton Baptist Church. We are so confident the Lord has brought us to grow our family this way, at this time, through this country and we couldn’t be more excited!

Neil and I arrived at this resolution at different times. Neither of us grew up knowing many people who were adopted, and while we both loved the idea, it stayed an idea wrapped in so many unknowns that neither of us could picture how it would play out in our lives.

I got more exposure to the reality of adoption in my early twenties through my church in Austin, and it went from an idea to a possibility that I couldn’t shake. When Neil and I were married and ready to grow our family, we had three miscarriages that illuminated a false sense of control in our lives. We submitted our family and our plans to the Lord for His glory alone. We then had a healthy son, Austin, who is a silly, sweet, playful, independent, flexible, loving, three-year-old. When we wanted to grow our family again, we just weren’t able to get pregnant. It was a painful season of waiting, praying, crying and pleading with the Lord. Then we started talking about making that adoption idea a reality for our family. After a year of prayer, long conversations, counsel and research, that idea turned into excitement and passion. We both landed on an affirmative YES and RIGHT NOW.

This past Easter, the theme at our church was “New Life.” So, while we had landed on adopting earlier, we waited a few days so we could submit our application to adopt on Easter Sunday. We wanted to say yes to new life in our family through adoption the same day we celebrated our new life through Jesus’ adoption of us into His.


STRIPE charges an online processing fee (2.2% +.30 USD per transaction). Your donations will be decreased by this amount. You may also send a check payable to “Lifesong for Orphans”. In the memo line please write “Arey 08768”, to ensure it is credited to our account. Please mail to Lifesong for Orphans, PO Box 40, Gridley, IL 61744.

Lifesong has been blessed with partners who underwrite all U.S. administrative and fundraising costs (TMG Foundation and other partners). That means 100% of your donation will go directly to the adoption.

  • In following IRS guidelines, your donation is to Lifesong for Orphans. This organization retains full discretion over its use, but intends to honor the donor’s suggested use.
  • Lifesong is a 501(c)3 tax exempt organization. Individual donations of $50 or more and yearly donations totaling $250 or more will receive a tax-deductible receipt. Receipts for donations under $50 will gladly be sent upon request.
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Comments

$900

Lisa

22 hours ago

$100

Lil

Sep 22, 2020

“xoxo”

$200

Sara & Brian

Sep 11, 2020

“We love y'all and are so excited! We are praying for Moses and y'all as the Lord continues to unite your family <3”

$100

Kristen

Aug 31, 2020

“Love y’all!! Xoxo”

$103

Nicole

Aug 26, 2020

“Sending some love on your journey to adoption ❤️❤️”

$50

Katherine

Aug 23, 2020

“Praying for you all and for Mo to make it home soon!”

$500

Rachel

Aug 21, 2020

“We love you guys! Praying you can bring your son home soon!”

$2,000

Offline Donation

Aug 21, 2020

$150

Kelsey

Aug 20, 2020

$250

Jacqueline

Aug 18, 2020

“WE LOVE YOU! CANT WAIT TO MEET THE NEWEST AREY! - The Soon-To-Be Vaughans”

$500

Dale

Feb 13, 2020

$1,500

Offline Donation

Jan 9, 2020

$1,000

Offline Donation

Jan 9, 2020

$100

Jess

Jan 6, 2020

“Yay Future Buddy!! We already love you so much!”

$1,000

Hidden

Dec 27, 2019

“We are so excited for your family!”

$965

Offline Donation

Dec 27, 2019

$100

Jessica

Dec 22, 2019

“I love you guys & can’t wait to see you as parents of two. #A2 is already so loved.”

$50

Samantha

Dec 19, 2019

$2,500

Offline Donation

Dec 2, 2019