A Long Road…

Matthew Haberman
Matthew Haberman Fort Wayne, Indiana

Before we were married…before we were even engaged, Traci and I talked about adoption as something that both of us knew we would pursue. There has always been a longing in our family to reflect God’s spirit of adoption and bring someone into our family that would not have a family otherwise. After having our third biological child, we felt like it was time. So we started the process. We decided for several reasons to adopt from Ethiopia. With great excitement, we dove into the paperwork, and the whole thing moved forward. We did begin to hear that things we moving slowly on the Ethiopian side but assumed everything will smooth out and we would be matched with a child. It never did. With several more delays and questions, we began to wonder whether this was actually going to happen. In April of 2017 we were notified that Ethiopia had closed the country to international adoptions.

Our agency was great and worked it out so that some of the money that we put into the process would carry over if we moved to one of their other country’s programs. We landed on India for many similar reasons that had led us to Ethiopia. But at this time we went through a mess of transitions; leaving a job, moving a few states over, and living with our parents, while we figured out what was next. This all lasted way longer that any of us thought. We reworked all the dynamics of our family, when Traci got a job and we decided that we would stay in Fort Wayne. So after buying our first home, and starting all that fun paperwork from scratch, we find ourselves matched with a beautiful 9 yr old girl, who we cannot wait to bring into our family. Our three biologicals are over the moon about having a new sister and are prepping for her arrival already.

We had done some significant fundraising at the beginning of all this, but as the time has gone on and as we’ve had to pay some things twice, we find that we are still in need of some more funds, mainly for travel. We are also concerned as the cost of traveling is shooting up at the moment.  Many of you have not been called to adopt, but that does not mean that you cannot be involved in the beautiful process and work of adoption. So we invite you to give if you can do so with joy. We hope and pray that you will be blessed to walk this last part of a really long road with us, and at the end, we would be so excited to introduce you to the newest Haberman.

 

Peace and Love,

Matt, Traci, Annan, Judah, Liam, and N++++ni


STRIPE charges an online processing fee (2.2% +.30 USD per transaction)*. Your donations will be decreased by this amount. You may also send a check payable to “Lifesong for Orphans”. In the memo line please write “Haberman 05514”, to ensure it is credited to our account. Please mail to Lifesong for Orphans, PO Box 9, Gridley, IL 61744.

Lifesong has been blessed with partners who underwrite all U.S. administrative and fundraising costs (TMG Foundation and other partners). That means 100% of your donation will go directly to the adoption.

  • In following IRS guidelines, your donation is to Lifesong for Orphans. This organization retains full discretion over its use, but intends to honor the donor’s suggested use.
  • Lifesong is a 501(c)3 tax exempt organization. Individual donations of $50 or more and yearly donations totaling $250 or more will receive a tax-deductible receipt. Receipts for donations under $50 will gladly be sent upon request.
  • *3.5% fee for donations given with an American Express card
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Raised to date by 14 people
 of  $10,000
35 days left

My Story

Before we were married…before we were even engaged, Traci and I talked about adoption as something that both of us knew we would pursue. There has always been a longing in our family to reflect God’s spirit of adoption and bring someone into our family that would not have a family otherwise. After having our third biological child, we felt like it was time. So we started the process. We decided for several reasons to adopt from Ethiopia. With great excitement, we dove into the paperwork, and the whole thing moved forward. We did begin to hear that things we moving slowly on the Ethiopian side but assumed everything will smooth out and we would be matched with a child. It never did. With several more delays and questions, we began to wonder whether this was actually going to happen. In April of 2017 we were notified that Ethiopia had closed the country to international adoptions.

Our agency was great and worked it out so that some of the money that we put into the process would carry over if we moved to one of their other country’s programs. We landed on India for many similar reasons that had led us to Ethiopia. But at this time we went through a mess of transitions; leaving a job, moving a few states over, and living with our parents, while we figured out what was next. This all lasted way longer that any of us thought. We reworked all the dynamics of our family, when Traci got a job and we decided that we would stay in Fort Wayne. So after buying our first home, and starting all that fun paperwork from scratch, we find ourselves matched with a beautiful 9 yr old girl, who we cannot wait to bring into our family. Our three biologicals are over the moon about having a new sister and are prepping for her arrival already.

We had done some significant fundraising at the beginning of all this, but as the time has gone on and as we’ve had to pay some things twice, we find that we are still in need of some more funds, mainly for travel. We are also concerned as the cost of traveling is shooting up at the moment.  Many of you have not been called to adopt, but that does not mean that you cannot be involved in the beautiful process and work of adoption. So we invite you to give if you can do so with joy. We hope and pray that you will be blessed to walk this last part of a really long road with us, and at the end, we would be so excited to introduce you to the newest Haberman.

 

Peace and Love,

Matt, Traci, Annan, Judah, Liam, and N++++ni


STRIPE charges an online processing fee (2.2% +.30 USD per transaction)*. Your donations will be decreased by this amount. You may also send a check payable to “Lifesong for Orphans”. In the memo line please write “Haberman 05514”, to ensure it is credited to our account. Please mail to Lifesong for Orphans, PO Box 9, Gridley, IL 61744.

Lifesong has been blessed with partners who underwrite all U.S. administrative and fundraising costs (TMG Foundation and other partners). That means 100% of your donation will go directly to the adoption.

  • In following IRS guidelines, your donation is to Lifesong for Orphans. This organization retains full discretion over its use, but intends to honor the donor’s suggested use.
  • Lifesong is a 501(c)3 tax exempt organization. Individual donations of $50 or more and yearly donations totaling $250 or more will receive a tax-deductible receipt. Receipts for donations under $50 will gladly be sent upon request.
  • *3.5% fee for donations given with an American Express card
Read more

Comments

$100

Andy

May 23, 2022

“Love you guys and we continue to be praying for your family on this journey!!”

$150

Alisa

May 18, 2022

“Praying for your journey to complete your family!”

$100

Steve

May 11, 2022

$20

Brian

May 11, 2022

$50

Nancy

Apr 29, 2022

“Best Wishes as you welcome home your beautiful daughter!”

$150

Kathy

Apr 25, 2022

“May God provide all that you need to bring this sweet girl to a home where she is loved and can reach her God given potential.”

$500

Eric

Apr 23, 2022

“Praying and excited to meet her! The world can use more Haberman’s!!!”

$100

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Apr 15, 2022

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Angela

Apr 12, 2022

$75

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Apr 3, 2022

“Please apply this for Haberman adoption. Praying for financial blessings for the Haberman’s.”

$100

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Apr 2, 2022

“Praying that all of your needs, financial and otherwise, will be met!”

$50

Deborah

Mar 31, 2022

“May God fill your house with many blessings. Thank you for letting me be apart of this journey”

$100

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Mar 31, 2022

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Mar 2, 2022